Tuesday, November 28, 2006

MEN DON'T WANT FUNNY WOMEN

Men don't want funny women

Reuters

Women value a good sense of humour in a potential male partner, even if his jokes are crass. But men don't rate humour so highly in women, new research shows
It's a trait often requested in lonely hearts ads and scientists have now shown that a good sense of humour is important for women, but not men, in choosing a romantic partner.

A woman is even willing to overlook other shortcomings in a man if he can make her laugh, North American researchers say in the journal Evolution and Human Behavior.

"Our results suggest that humour can positively affect desirability as a relationship partner but this effect is most likely to occur when men use humour and are evaluated by women," says Dr Eric Bressler, an assistant professor at Westfield State College in Massachusetts.

Bressler and Canadian researcher Dr Sigal Balshine, an assistant professor at McMaster University in Ontario, demonstrated in an experiment that a good sense of humour, or GSOH as it appears in personal ads, does make a difference.

They showed groups of women pictures of two equally attractive men and presented autobiographical statements that were either funny or serious.

After reversing the experiment and showing groups of men photographs of two women, they asked both sexes to select who they would choose as a romantic partner.

The humorous people were seen as more socially adept but less trustworthy, honest and intelligent. Men did not select the funny person but women did.

"Women chose funny men as relationship partners despite often rating them as less honest and intelligent," the researchers say.

Funny men were preferred even if their humour was unsophisticated, the researchers add.










Actually, I don't know if men make it a point to avoid dating funny women. I often see that it's the men in the relationships who are witty. I think it is definitely an attractive trait because I've seen a lot of times where the gentleman would not have gotten together with a girl if it was not for him being funny.

I do think we ladies LOVE ENTERTAINMENT!!<:-D I know I do!:D... Yeah, there's a lot of truth that witty guys get more girls. Ladies are already overwhelmed with handling DRAMA in our lives, so we need HUMOR from the guys to offset it.

4 comments:

Tasia said...

ah.. interesting huh??

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Anonymous said...

Quote : "The humorous people were seen as more socially adept but less trustworthy, honest and intelligent."

LHOOO ... hmmm .... Mario is humorous ... does that mean he is less trustworthy etc. ??? Nah loo Mar ..... dianggep ga pinter juga, hehehe ....

Fountain of Useless Information said...

So men, you got a choice:
You can be an intelligent, honest, and trustworthy man, or you get the girls...

:P

RIA'S PLAYGROUND!! said...

Intelligence, honesty, and trustworthiness are always attractive traits for both genders to have. These usually take more time for someone to discover.

In the initial encounters, we normally figure out who is the joker in the club first. Obviously, we notice the jokers in a circle of friends because they speak up and tell jokes. They are the life of the crowd and that's why they tend to stand out, at least initially.

WE WANT BOTH!:D:D:D